- Be honest with yourself, even if you can’t with anyone else.
- Always give to charity, but remember that charity starts at home.
- Date frequently and have as much sex as you can when you’re in college. It gets harder to meet someone afterwards.
- Eat as well as you can afford to, and as close to natural as possible. You may not lose weight, but your body will thank you.
- Don’t take crap from anybody.
- Make sure you have a comfortable place to sleep.
- Embrace your inner child, but be adult enough to snap out of it when necessary.
- Never ask or answer the question: “Do I look fat in this?”
- Indulge in a couple of guilty pleasures, preferably ones that won’t kill you.
- Exercise regularly. Even if it’s just taking the stairs.
- Geekiness will help you meet people on the internet, not so much in real life.
- Have a favorite beer.
- If you can afford to go to college, make sure you do.
- Keep a gas card handy. You’ll thank me later.
- If you love someone and they don’t love you back, set them free.
- Learn a trade that you can make extra money with.
- Make as many friends as you can…and treat them even better than you want to be treated.
- Own at least one good pair of shoes.
- Never tow the line of a political party.
- Read a book or two regularly.
- Procrastination only works occasionally to one’s favor.
- You cannot drink your problems away.
- Respect your parents, even if you have to move across the country to be able to deal with them.
- Make friends with a good lawyer. You may need him or her someday.
- Rock out to some good music sometimes. You’ll feel better afterwards.
- Never charge more than half your credit limit on a credit card.
- Know enough about sports and current events to carry on a relevant conversation.
- Make sure you know the difference between sex and love.
- Sometimes it’s just better to shut up.
Monday, August 29, 2005
29 pieces of advice…
…from a guy who’s having his last day as a 29-year-old.
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So you're gonna be 30 tomorrow? Live it up! Good advice, too. The only one I have yet to realize is that no, you cannot drink all your problems away. Someday I'll catch on, maybe when I'm 29 no?
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday!!!
~Carrie =)
Thanks Carrie :-)
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Steve!
ReplyDeleteGood advice on the list.
I always think of you as being
about 26, but I guess you WERE about 26 when I met you.
Anyway, you don't look 30ish , more like 26!!
Ken
Wow, what great advice. You've definitely learned a lot in 29 short years. May the next 29 be just as enlightening.
ReplyDeleteWhat a truly selfless and civic-minded way to observe this dubiously important milestone in your young life. You are a model citizen. Now go out tomorrow and drink your self into a blubbering, self-pitying mess.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday!!!
Ken: If it helps, I still feel 26. LOL
ReplyDeleteMitch: I learned a lot by making some stupid mistakes. But as long as I live on to fight the good fight, it's worth it. They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I must be strong like bull. Haha
Heather: I'm gonna do my part to kill off a few excess brain cells tomorrow, though my closest friend out there is a teetotaler. Oh well, that's when having a basement full of homemade wine comes in handy. :-)
You'd better be 'strong like bull' if homemade wine is in the offing. If you live to see you're thirties after a few bottles of that you'll be even stronger, and considerably less sharp. Happy actual birthday. T-plus thirty-six minutes. Thanks for your feedback.
ReplyDeleteThanks again Heather :-)
ReplyDeleteI'm the official wine tester around here, so I've learned to be a little careful. The stuff I have to watch out for is the fruit mixes (you can make wine out of nearly any fruit) with cornrmeal added. That adds a little, ahem, "lightning," to the mix and is best enjoyed in moderation.